Midlife And Treachery

I had to get up this morning and figure out which docs I had made an appointment with this week and which times…check them all and move a dental appt.   As of Wednesday,  all of the doc records will have been updated.

Lease has renewed on apartment.. (they made us renew sixty days prior to end date of lease -that has always been a condition–)  also kept the rent the same so it just remains insanely expensive instead of insanely expensive plus some more. I console myself with the fact that many of the appt’s around town would be about the same because they charge for garage (close to 90.00 month separately and the garage here is included in the rent…I don’t have to do the coins for laundry since the washer/dryer is in the place…so that gets the ‘rent’ alone’ closer to what we were paying at the former dwelling…

They have gifted us with a 250 visa gift card for doing so.

It’ll go towards basics.

I hate tracking all this stuff, but with the drop in funds, I have to…

Also stopped shopping online because King Soopers (easterners, think Kroger… is next door and Whole Foods ten minutes away….)

“I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason, and intellect has intended us to forgo their use.” — Galileo Galilei

and funny!

I’m trying to breathe in and out slowly so as not to yell and go on a verbal tear in a friends defense. (and no this does not apply to any on facebook, so don’t fret)

Someone made themselves a friend of mine, on another site, who never was. They were not an enemy, they didn’t do anything bad to me, but they certainly did mess up an aquaintaince in college by being particularly clueless in their conduct towards this friend. This friend and I have had our differences, but I believe we have mended them best we can.

I defend my friends when I feel they were wronged.

It was twenty five years ago…so I’ll leave it be. But this person was *never* my friend…and they don’t need to say they are.